Sunday, March 4, 2012

Its March!

I know your probably all surprised that I'm already doing another post, but I wanted to get some things down while they're still fresh in my mind. I kind of had an epiphany you could say the other night and for record keeping sake I wanted it in a journal where I could go back and read about it and remind myself of what I need to be doing. I have just been realizing lately how fast the time is flying by! I know everyone says that as you get older the time goes faster, but its so true! I feel like I blink and another month has gone by! But mostly it has been since I've had Tytyn. It is just unreal to me that he is almost 2 years old! I feel like I just had him, but at the same time like I've known him my whole life. Does that make sense? I was looking at him the other night and thinking he isn't a baby anymore he is SO big, where is the time going?! I know he will be grown up before I know it. I just want to cherish every moment that I have with my little family and I feel like I haven't been doing the best job of that lately. I'm the kind of person that has a hard time slowing down sometimes, I feel like I have to be doing something productive at all times. Tytyn has been acting out more lately and I know some of it is probably the age, but as I was watching him the other night it just hit me like a ton of bricks. The reason he acts out most of the time is because he doesn't know any other way to get your attention. I just wanted to cry when I had that realization because I need to just step back every once in awhile and give him my full attention. The dishes can wait, the laundry can wait, but I don't want to make my son wait on me. My family should be my first priority. He is such a smart boy, he learns and picks up on things so fast and always wants to be helping with everything! I don't want to diminish or harness those qualities in anyway. At this age I know he is just constantly learning and I want to be a part of all that. I read this quote that said "Get over the mess and just let your kid be a kid." So obviously there is moderation in all things and I'm not just going to let my child run wild, but I want him to have a happy and memorable childhood and be able to look back and remember all the fun things he did with Mom and Dad growing up! So I read a bunch of articles and Mom blogs today as he napped and made a list of fun activities that I thought he'd enjoy. I just had to mentally tell myself to get into it with him and let him have a fun learning experience and not worry about the mess it will create. Whats a 5 minute mess clean up anyway when you just had a half hour of a smiley and giggly happy boy!!! So I'm going to start blogging the fun adventures of Tytyn and Mommy so that I can look back and remember our fun times together. Here are 2 things that we did this afternoon, enjoy!

Our first activity was super simple and cheap. A bag of marshmallows, some toothpicks and a muffin tin. We poked the marshmallows with the toothpicks and sorted them in the muffin tin. Of course there were quite a few eaten too. After he got bored with that we picked up big handfuls and dropped them over each others heads and then dropped them from high up to see how many would land in the muffin tin. We had fun with this for a good 45 minutes and he LOVED every minute of it!






Then after dinner we decided to do some pudding painting! This will probably be a new favorite!



This was taken a different day. He loves to help me do dishes, this isn't anything new, but the picture was so cute I had to put it on here.

Look at that cute boy!



I know that we are our own worst critic and I think sometimes I'm too hard on myself and don't give myself enough credit. Thats hard for me to say. I just want to be the best Mom possible. I want to have fun with my kids. I want to create a great learning environment for them. I want them to feel the spirit in our home. I want them to know they can come to me about anything. I want them to know that I believe in them. And I want them to know I love them and would do anything for them. Heres to looking forward with a more positive attitude and putting whats more important first. Thanks for listening to my rambling! And most of all thanks to my Mom who did all of these things for us growing up and more. She was and is the best example of what a wonderful mother is! I love and appreciate you more than you know Mom!

2 comments:

  1. You're an awesome mommy. Tytyn's blessed to have you! I wish I could be that carefree about messes, I definitely was more when I only had one or two kids. Now I feel like a Nazi mom when it comes to messes. I'm glad you're helping put things into perspective for me too!

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  2. What a sweet post Lindsey. Thanks for the kind words. I do LOVE being a mom & spending time with my kiddos. I'm sure I could have been a lot more patient at times. I have special memories of many things we did together. You're a great mom, don't ever underestimate yourself! I'm glad you're enjoying this time, because it does go WAY to fast.
    I love you, Mom xoxooxoxox

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